Saturday, February 13, 2010

Basics To Be Happy (Part 1) : Indispensable Needs

Indispensable Needs;

I have been living in a city, surrounded by competitive people, showing each other a step lower on the ladder in the Rat-Race of money earning. Living amongst, I have had a few thoughtful moments which describe what I felt and have been feeling.

Why the rat race? Why the competition and why to pull down others to push up yourself? The answer, as per me, is as follows. To start with, we all are driven by our needs. But eventually we mistake our ambitions as our needs. I'm not against ambition. After all, it is our ambitions that provide us with diversified thinking and achieving ability. It is our ambitions which make us achieve remarkable milestones in our lives.

Unfortunately we are not able to differentiate between our needs and ambitions. So how can we differentiate between our needs and ambitions. One quick solution, that I could think of is: needs are indispensable whereas ambitions are dispensable.

Look into your inner soul again and again. We are all the part of this beautiful nature. We are able to live without a number of things what we have today. Look back at how we started our species being a chimpanzee. For better health we need healthy body. And for healthy body we need a fresh and stress less mind. For stress less mind, we have to workout and figure out your basic needs.

Work for our basic needs and live for others, help the others to understand the feelings of diversified basic needs. Although these things couldn't be achieved easily but it's as easy as wake up early in the morning in a high-tech cities. Don't laugh think and feel, live with our basic and Indispensable Need.

Don't be a part of blind Rat-Race; Live with the things which are very necessary for us.I mean and only mean for Indispensable Need.

This is the only the way by which we can be happy ever and ever, what i need to say from the first word of this article.

Not just happy "Very Happy" :)

Truly Yours
Neeraj